This has to be one of the saddest but more true "old sayings" that keep coming around and for the purpose of this blog, it joins "What a shame that youth is wasted on the young". At my old age of 51, seeing kids OD - ing on heroin or anything else for that matter really drives me nuts. With all the publicity out there nowadays and the programs available, the awareness of the health risks of drugs and the new era fitness craze going on, what in God's name is making kids still mess with junk they KNOW will kill them, stuff that has the reputation for decades of being just plain bad ? The 60s and 70s had all the drug experimentation we needed, and research done, and programs started, funerals attended, celebs dead, and all the law suits we needed to hold people accountable for "pushing" dangerous drugs upon children, teens and adults. Then I remember a move towards better health consciousness in the early 80s and into the 90s with the post Arnold Bodybuilding craze and so many people getting into running, biking, hiking, and all sorts of sneakers out there, and the big companies such as Nike and Addidas with all the sports apparel, and unless I'm nuts there was a slow down of all the bad drug use we heard of 10 - 15 years past. We all knew what was real bad and addictive, and we all knew - again thanks to all the awareness and publicity and anti drug ads - what to stay away from for simple fear of death. But then things changed I guess, the "Grundge" look came about in the mid-later 90s and all the baggy clothes and suddenly kids had no interest in fitness and it was easy to hide behind layers of 3 size too big shirts and jeans. Obesity soared, and couchs and video games became more of the trend than gyms and biking or just getting outside. So hear we are in the 2000s and moving into the 2000-teens, and although clothes got to be a little more form fitted again, and people have become more body-aware again and gym memberships have risen and I'm seeing more teens get into the gyms (although they have no clue what is correct and their school coaches seem to know even less), it's all good and a better move towards health and well being. We see Planet Fitness commercials and The Arnold Sports Festival attracting hundreds of thousands in attendance. BUT still kids are driving drunk, OD - ing on drugs and if not killing themselves, they are making real bad choices (and adults too) that are landing them in vegetative states. It's all very very sad, and I pray that whatever is missing in bringing up our kids (because in my opinion adults should know better), is brought back into their lives. This is a great age, of technology and knowledge, and so many options despite the lousy economy, are available to pursue, and yet ..... HEROIN ???? Something that we have known for 40+ years will kill you, is being used by kids ??? R u kidding me ??? What's missing, what are the parents not doing, what are the teachers not teaching and from what examples are kids learning everything what NOT to do ??
Andrew, I think you make a lot of good points and I can even hear me saying some of them. I would stop short at blaming any particular outside group for this problem. I don't think it's the teachers or the rock stars or whoever. If any one group holds the bag on this one, it's got to be the parents. But think about the culture we live in. Besides using drugs being a "cool" thing to do and entertainers projecting the image of gangsters, we have a society that has forced both parents to work (if both parents are even there) and our kids are left to their own devices. Today it's a struggle to get everyone to the dinner table together and then getting them to talk is another issue all together. I can't tell you how many families I see at restaurants with the two parents, texting, and the kids playing video games. The lack of family is what drives kids to join gangs. You may at first glance think gangs are a criminal enterprise but the truth is they are family substitutes and the best way to keep your kids out of them is by having a strong family relationship.
Maybe we should organize an electronic free day where we can all go to the park or on a hike and not take a cell phone with us?
Walden: I don't think I was blaming anyone other than parents. But you know, as the kids et older they need to be somewhat responsible for thier own actions also. And when it comes to teachers, I was just putting it out there that maybe our teachers can help in some way, maybe to supplement what is not happening at home. I definately was not blaming Rock Stars or anyone to that effect. I agree 100% that it all needs to begin at home, and I realize the stress on Parents who both work, but know what? It can't be an excuse. My wife and I both work, and with both kids in college, they are still the priority. In this day and age with technology and communication as available as it is, contact between parents and kids needs to be frequent and a priority. And yes, I see what goes on with families at resturants also, sickening !
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I'm wondering if a comment made by Veton Sejdiu was deleted because it implies a threat against…Read More people. In his comment, he calls people "morons" and "fools" (nothing new here), but in a threatening way, he dares people to try to take guns away.
don't know why I'm having a problem getting this written............anyway...they are rude,…Read More unhygenic and WILL NOT follow any of the condo rules....there's so much more but we are sick of it. There are only two of us that speak up...everyone else is cowering behind closed doors.
Unleashed dogs is getting to be a big problem in Peekskill. I see them routinely now. People are…Read More letting their pit bulls out, their poodles, their chihuahuas - all kinds of dogs. Two days a go I watched a lady jogging on the track with her loose dog. The dog wasn't even supposed to be on the track no less loose. Some kid or elderly lady is going to get bit. Loose dogs also end up in more fights with other dogs.
Sue a sad fact that these days of “political correctness” individuals who exhibit rude…Read More and ignorant behavior are empowered by the rest of us. I know of a similar situation where the individuals will yell four letter words in the public areas with young children there, call others the foulest things, and in this case, they are black and gay so the race/gay card is used constantly. Until people make it known they are not going to tolerate their behavior it will not stop. Have you notified the property owner, complex board, and police, or maybe the board of health?
@Nancy,,I Thanked both you and Pauline Ghilcrest for serving the community and they took my comments…Read More down twice!!! Once again Thank You..you're automatically signed up for next year..:)
It seems Patch moves editors every year. Liz was here when I signed up. Then she was shortly moved…Read More to Rye and Rasheed took over. He must have been here about a year and then he left when the new format was introduced. Both times patch started cooking and then it got cut down just as new staff got their mojo going. A new editor with a new format seems like starting from scratch again. I know AOL/Patch needs to get some cash flow going quick (from what I've read) but I can't see what they are trying to do exactly by tipping the cart over and over
Agree Joshua just when you have a good thing going with an Editor they move. I can't figure this…Read More site out I was not allowed to post for at least a week thought Mary et al put an hex on me.
Hey anyone know where Peter Goodson is??? I miss his posts.
new format is a dud.. 100% dud.. not user friendly.. a horror to navigate, as mentioned... no…Read More benefit here. not at all.. quickly becoming a ex Patch fan... fix the mess you made..
Working Families Party almost always cross endorses with Democrats. Looks like the choice is…Read More getting clearer: One team is Democrat, WFP and Independent and the Catalina Team is Republican, Right-to-life, Conservative. Anyway, I believe Catalina is campaigning as anti-gay rights, so I know how I will be voting.
and so many in the cast of characters that attend the meetings. believe Mary is a republican at…Read More heart.. and here the Left of all left dem groups endorses here..mmmmmmmm just thinking out loud..
mary foster and the rest of her butt kissers not need to run after what they have done to this city…Read More already we don't need them to run another term they neeed to get out and stay out. i believe frank catalina will much better than foster will ever be he cares about the city and does not like what foster has done to this city i wish him very much luck and i truly believe he will win as our mayor for peekskill good luck and kick foster and her butt kissers out of city hall and keep them out
I agree - the dangerous stop signs On Hudson Ave should be removed in both directions and keep the…Read More stop signs on South St. and the exit ramps from Route 9.
Today it's a struggle to get everyone to the dinner table together and then getting them to talk is another issue all together. I can't tell you how many families I see at restaurants with the two parents, texting, and the kids playing video games. The lack of family is what drives kids to join gangs. You may at first glance think gangs are a criminal enterprise but the truth is they are family substitutes and the best way to keep your kids out of them is by having a strong family relationship. Maybe we should organize an electronic free day where we can all go to the park or on a hike and not take a cell phone with us?